4 Things I’ve Learned When Past Lovers Come Back

With Venus in retrograde, this seems like the perfect time for this post. Not sure what that means? A retrograde happens when the planet appears to be moving backwards (this is actually an illusion, as it is merely that the planet is just moving more slowly). You’ve heard of Mercury Retrograde, no doubt, but what … Continue reading 4 Things I’ve Learned When Past Lovers Come Back →

Lessons in Love & Strip Clubs

Recently I picked up a third job at a local gentlemen's club to save some extra money for the expansion of my spa. I’ve waited tables before, although it hadn’t been for about ten years, and I had never served alcohol; only food since I was a minor at the time I had been serving. … Continue reading Lessons in Love & Strip Clubs →

6 Tips for Creating Conversation with Online Dating

Online dating is hard. It’s weird. You create a profile, swipe left or right on someone you think is cute and/or you like what they have to say about themselves, and then you like, talk and stuff. But what do you talk about? Obviously this is going to differ for each person based on interests … Continue reading 6 Tips for Creating Conversation with Online Dating →

7 Things I’ve Learned from Becoming a Serial Dater

My typical behavior after a break-up, or a parting of ways, is to essentially sulk. I usually get pretty sad because all of the hope I had for this relationship to turn out to be “the one” is now gone and I’m left all alone once more. Then, after about six months or more of … Continue reading 7 Things I’ve Learned from Becoming a Serial Dater →

Why I Love Being Stood Up

We’ve all been there – messaging back and forth with a guy from Tinder. We’re unsure about whether or not we even actually want to meet up with them – c’mon, let’s face it, we’re thirty years old and we’ve dated enough to be sick of the dating game. But, they’re insistent. They ask questions, … Continue reading Why I Love Being Stood Up →